do a number on one

(verb) to extremely upset someone

Example Sentences:

The final exam is going to do a number on you unless you study hard.

Our new boss is doing a number on everyone by canceling our Christmas party!

A: How was your audition for dance school?
B: The teachers did a number on me! They said I was a terrible dancer, and that I would never be successful.
A: Sorry to hear that.

From the News:

Even good stress can do a number on you

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Similar idioms:

1. one can hear a pin drop
2. do or die
3. ravenous